You will always find what you are looking for.
Geometrical information we take in with our senses literally has the ability to phase lock us into a new reality through exposure. Visually seeing things enhances this exposure, allowing us to usher in a new personal reality. If you would like a new personal reality, you have to bring forth a new personality. What beliefs and thoughts does this new personality have?
Your beliefs dictate your thoughts. Your thoughts dictate your feelings. All contributing to the actions you take, which literally construct your lived reality here on earth.
Words act as portals. They are cognitive doorways to which we construct and make sense of reality, so the ones you choose to use, and your relationship to them, can profoundly impact your experience of reality.
If you believe you can, or you believe you can’t, you will be right.